Well Finally....

Obedient Husband: Elegant Female Led Marriage

I hate the type on the cover....Elliot is going to have to redesign it but now this will be the rare, first state, version of the second volume of our journey into a female led marriage. I hope you enjoy reading about it as much as I have enjoyed living it.

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I had a lovely time earlier this morning. Elliot was very clever with his tongue and quite meek about going to his new corner with my panties while I finished. I like him to listen but not watch. I think he was a little disappointed that I was not in the mood for greater pleasure and simply finished by myself and got on with my day. As it should be I think. Going three or four weeks without ejaculating is very good for him. Especially as he is taking low dose Viagra and is hard half the day.

Pleasures

I gave Elliot his first tablet since our move. I don't particularily want his little cockette but I might and if I do I want it as hard and as big as it can get.

It is time to get back to our routine. He desperately needs a whipping and some corner time just to remind him of his place. I have not let him come for nearly a month so he is very much on sexual edge. Taking his tablet this morning, on his knees beside our bed, I could see him yearning for release. He may have to sleep in his panti girdle for a few nights. I certainly have no intention of letting him initiate any thing. Right now I want him hard and obedient.

Moving

Sorry to be silent for a few days...I had to supervise Elliot carrying box after box as we moved house. We hate moving. Because while he can carry, if I want our house to be as it should, I have to unpack and place. But we found the canes and the toys and all the other delights of a female led marriage.

So, off we go.

Is Masturbation Cheating

Over at the always amusing Denying Thumper blog there is a lively discussion of whether or not masturbation, in the context of a female led relationship, is "cheating". Thumper himself has his cock caged by his wife, an expedient I have considered but decided against with Elliot. It is an interesting discussion. Here's my contribution.

While I don’t keep Elliot locked up he is certainly not allowed to touch himself without my express permission. As for his bottom, I save that for special occasions and milking. Pegging him is not something which I particularly enjoy though he seems to.

If we ever get another maid I suspect I will pass the pegging off to her.

The question of whether masturbation is cheating does not arise in our house. Elliot is supposed to do what he is told. If I have not told him to pull his little cockette into his cup and he does he is being disobedient and will be whipped. I have expressly forbidden him to act on any of his sexual desires. At my house there is only one sexually active partner, me. He has no sex and never will again. He has embraced this as part of his submission. Elliot knows that even asking violates his sexual submission and will earn him a quick and serious correction.

His natural erections are controlled most of the month by a good, stiff, panti-girdle. He may get them but I never have to see them. On the rare occasions I want penetrative sex I will give him a little tablet to ensure he can perform as I require.

I have to say it is wonderful fun to see his eyes light up when I leave his tablet beside his wine at dinner. But even that is no guarantee. Sometimes I will simply have him lick me to orgasm and have him put his girdle right back on over his pretty, hard, little cock. He never knows. He just does what he is told.

Routine

A really well trained husband will discipline himself.

A few days ago I explained to Elliot that from then on, when he got up in the morning to put on my kettle for tea, he was to look and see if I had left my panties out. If I had he was to strip, take the panties and press them into his corner in our room with his nose. I told him he was to remain in that position until the kettle had boiled. Then he was to take the kettle off, make my tea and, as it was steeping, quickly rinse out my panties and bra, hang them to dry and serve me tea in bed.

When I woke up this morning there he was, naked, in his corner.

Perfect. Even better, he was delightfully hard. Precisely how I like him first thing in the morning.

Book Nook

It is fun seeing what our readers buy at Amazon. Here's a booklist from this month so far:

A Man In My Position (The
Well Tempered Husband)

FEMDOM FIRSTS: How Dominant
Women And Their Submissives Got Into The BDSM
Lifestyle - Volume 1 of the WellHeeledDominatrix.com Collection

FemDom Training of Submissive Males

Submitting to Her (a
full-length femdom romance)

The Dominant Wife

The Dominant Wife Rulebook

The Femdom
Conquest of Larry into Slavery: Male Erotic Training

The Hesitant Mistress

Under Her Thumb: Erotic
Stories of Female Domination

Wives Who Spank (Spanked
Husband Stories)

Worshipping Your Wife 2: Best
of the Blog

Tease

One huge difference between a female led marriage and a regular marriage is that a dominant wife can and should tease her sweet husband knowing that she controls any sexual release on his part.

I love spending a few minutes at the beginning of the day dressing where Elliot can see me. He knows he is not allowed to touch but he is required to look. Some mornings, when I am feeling a bit frisky, I'll make him lift up his nightie (and I recommend simple cotton nighties for all submissive husbands as it is a constant, easy, nightly humiliation to have to put on a night dress) and stroke his little cockette before slipping on my panties and bra. He gets deliciously hard and has no where to go.

Then I send him for a nice cold shower while I finish dressing. He has to stay under until I tell him to get out. He hates a cold shower so I usually call him after a minute or two. Which means he can, naked, fasten my stockings and zip my dress. If I want him en femme to a degree I can put out a pair of his panties or a nice firm girdle. He never knows what will be waiting for him.

He loves being a man in his position and I must say I will never be anything but the Lady of the House.